Ways to Keep Your Relationship Stable

Although love is the foundation of any happy romantic relationship, love is not enough. In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties have to be willing to work on it. Here are some basic rules of the relationship road that will keep you headed in the right direction:

You can Only Change Yourself, Not Your Partner

If you love someone and think that after a while he or she will alter behaviors you find uncomfortable, think again. If you want changes, put them on the table. so your partner knows what you need.

Understand that Men and Women are Very Different

We're not from Mars or Venus; we're not even in the same solar system. Understanding and accepting our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting and fun.

Get Regular Tune-Ups

Go to a couples workshop, talk with a counselor, or read a relationship book together at least once a year. Even if you don't think you need it, you will pick up a couple of ideas, and the process alone will strengthen your connection. Sometimes, you need the help of experts to build a stronger relationship.

Find a Way to Become and Stay Best Friends 

For some this sounds unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it's the best part of their time together. Having your loved one as your best friend is the best ways to build the bond between the couples!

Be Responsible for Your Own Happiness!

No other person can make you happy. It's something you have to do on your own. If you feel it's your partner's fault, think again, and look within to find out what piece may be missing for you.
There are no guarantees, but couples who practice these techniques have longer and stronger relationships than those who are not proactive in their love. So why not give it a try?